Aspects
Lilith (asteroid) Sextile Venus
There is a graceful opening between how you love and the part of you that refuses to be suppressed, one that rewards a little initiative. When you choose to build relationships that honor your independence, love and autonomy cooperate, lending your bonds both warmth and a self-respecting freedom. It will not happen by itself; the door asks you to take it. But ask plainly for the autonomy you need and offer the same to a partner, and you find affection and independence feeding each other, so that loving closely and staying wholly yourself come to feel like the same dignified thing rather than a trade-off.
Lean in — Ask for the autonomy you need and offer a partner the same.
Watch for — Guard your freedom by keeping love at arm's length.
- equal-love
- opportunity
- autonomous-bond
Sources
- George, Asteroid Goddesses (1986)Treats Lilith among the additional asteroids, its principle of the suppressed and independent self as it meets the Venus.
- Hand, Horoscope Symbols (1981)Frames the asteroid Lilith-Venus aspect as an inner dynamic of the chart.
- Forrest, The Inner Sky (1984)Reads the asteroid Lilith-Venus contact in evolutionary, growth-oriented terms.