Aspects
Descendant Quincunx Lilith (asteroid)
With Lilith An awkward aspect between planets about 150 degrees apart, joining signs with nothing in common. It asks for constant small adjustments between things that do not naturally fit. your The point directly opposite the Ascendant, on the western horizon. It describes partnership, others, and what you seek in relationship., the wild, unownable partner you imagine and the one you actually have rarely match, requiring constant adjustment. You may keep waiting for someone fierce enough, or quietly chafe when a bond asks for compromise. The work is small and ongoing, fitting your ideal of freedom to a real and imperfect other. Adjust your expectations to the person in front of you.
Lean in — Keep adjusting your ideal of a free partner to the real one.
Watch for — Do not hold out for a partner who never asks you to bend.
- adjustment
- partnership
- freedom
Sources
- George, Asteroid Goddesses (1986)Reads the asteroid Lilith by her mythos, the first woman who refused to submit, as a point of the wild untamed feminine, primal self-possession, and exile chosen over subjugation, distinct from the Black Moon lunar apogee.
- Hand, Horoscope Symbols (1981)Treats the meeting of untamed self-possession and the Descendant, partnership and the other, as a specific working relationship.
- Tierney, Dynamics of Aspect Analysis (1983)Reads the quincunx as a minor aspect of adjustment and incongruity that must be continually realigned.