Aspects
Lilith (asteroid) Conjunction Venus
Your way of loving and the part of you that refuses to be suppressed are fused, so you need autonomy within affection and bristle at any love that tries to possess or diminish you. You will not be tamed into someone's idea of a partner, and you are drawn to relationships that honor your independence. The gift is a love that stays self-respecting and free. The shadow is a reflexive resistance that pushes away closeness to prove you cannot be owned, withholding warmth when you feel controlled, or testing partners with the cold shoulder. Let your love keep its freedom without mistaking every request for closeness as a threat to it.
Lean in — Keep your freedom in love without reading closeness as capture.
Watch for — Push away affection to prove you cannot be owned.
- autonomous-love
- unowned
- self-respecting
Sources
- George, Asteroid Goddesses (1986)Treats Lilith among the additional asteroids, its principle of the suppressed and independent self as it meets the Venus.
- Hand, Horoscope Symbols (1981)Frames the asteroid Lilith-Venus aspect as an inner dynamic of the chart.
- Forrest, The Inner Sky (1984)Reads the asteroid Lilith-Venus contact in evolutionary, growth-oriented terms.