Aspects
Quaoar Square Venus
Your longing for love and the Quaoar principle keep colliding, so your drive to harmonize can become control, you may impose your preferred order on a relationship, mistake a tidy structure for real harmony, or be unable to love what is messy and unformed. Affection and ordering get tangled, so the very gift for harmony can strangle the living beauty of a bond. This square does not want either chaos or rigid control, it wants action: to bring living harmony rather than imposed order, to let love and beauty hold some disorder, until harmony and control stop colliding and your gift makes relationships and art more alive rather than more managed.
Lean in — Bring living harmony, letting love and beauty hold some disorder.
Watch for — Impose your order on a bond and call the tidiness harmony.
- control-vs-harmony
- imposed-order
- integration
Sources
- Tarnas, Cosmos and Psyche (2006)Gives the archetypal field of Quaoar, creation that brings order out of chaos, as it meets the Venus.
- Hand, Horoscope Symbols (1981)Frames the Quaoar-Venus aspect as an inner dynamic of the chart.
- Forrest, The Inner Sky (1984)Reads the Quaoar-Venus contact in evolutionary, growth-oriented terms.