Aspects
Lilith (asteroid) Conjunction Moon
Your emotional life and the part of you that refuses to be dismissed are fused, so you feel intensely when your needs are overlooked, talked over, or controlled, and you cannot easily swallow what hurts you. There may be an old story of feelings that were not allowed, leaving you quick to sense rejection and quick to withdraw behind a cold front to protect them. The gift is emotional honesty and a refusal to pretend you are fine when you are not. The shadow is the silent treatment, sulking, or pushing people away to test whether they will stay. Let your feelings demand to be heard without punishing the people you want to be close to.
Lean in — Let your feelings ask to be heard without punishing the listener.
Watch for — Use the silent treatment to test whether people will stay.
- unsilenced-feeling
- emotional-honesty
- sensitivity-to-rejection
Sources
- George, Asteroid Goddesses (1986)Treats Lilith among the additional asteroids, its principle of the suppressed and independent self as it meets the Moon.
- Hand, Horoscope Symbols (1981)Frames the asteroid Lilith-Moon aspect as an inner dynamic of the chart.
- Forrest, The Inner Sky (1984)Reads the asteroid Lilith-Moon contact in evolutionary, growth-oriented terms.