Aspects
Descendant Quincunx Virginia
With Virginia quincunx your Descendant, the intimacy you want and the autonomy you need rarely fit together neatly, requiring constant adjustment. You may keep pulling close then retreating, never settling on a comfortable distance. The work is small and ongoing, fitting your need to stay your own to a real and present other. Adjust the closeness to what the bond can actually hold.
Lean in — Keep adjusting the distance so closeness and self both fit.
Watch for — Do not lurch between merging and disappearing.
- adjustment
- partnership
- autonomy
Sources
- George, Asteroid Goddesses (1986)Reads Virginia by her namesake, the Roman maiden Verginia, as a point of inviolate integrity, self-possession, and autonomy preserved against coercion.
- Hand, Horoscope Symbols (1981)Treats the meeting of inviolate self-possession and the Descendant, partnership and the other, as a specific working relationship.
- Tierney, Dynamics of Aspect Analysis (1983)Reads the quincunx as a minor aspect of adjustment and incongruity that must be continually realigned.