Amor Square Mars

Your assertiveness and your capacity for unconditional love keep colliding. You may struggle to stand up for yourself because it feels unkind, let compassion blunt your drive until you are walked over, or swing into frustrated aggression when the over-giving finally breaks. Drive and love get crossed, so the strength meant to protect you instead dissolves into accommodation. This square does not want passivity, it wants conscious action: to assert your own needs as compassionately legitimate, to let love have a backbone, and to protect yourself without closing your heart, until strength and compassion stop grinding and start backing each other.